Zest for life

I am at Kochi now for an urgent personal work involving property transaction. More on this later.

I am staying with relatives - maternal paternal cousins pair. They got married more than thirty years back. The lady of the house was from a struggling family and her marriage with her cousin was a way out for her.

But life held different designs for this couple. They have three daughters- the first and the last being mentally challenged may be brought about by genetic factors caused by cohabitation between close relatives. The second daughter is bright but then - love is blind and truly blind. Her life partner bagged after secret romance was a poor choice and she is struglling in her family life.

Dad of kids retired from a public sector company years ago and has been working with a private construction company since.

The special daughters are attending special care school and are in mid twenties. Both the hunband and wife are cheerful people and go about their life with zest not for a minute dwelling on the daunting task facing them. They take good care of their special daughers and take them out when ever possible. The family has been travelling long distances to attend marriages of relatives.

Hats off to the spirit of this gutsy family. Such people give us a purpose in life and also helps us to look forward to life with zest.

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